Filed in Work is Life — June 25, 2025
I’ve been coaching people to be their best for over twenty years and love seeing them thrive as they adjust the lens they’re looking through. As a mom of teengaers, I realized that I could use my talent to help moms feel less frustrated, isolated and defeated as their kids navigate the challenging teen years. Helping my clients improve their relationship with themselves and honor their needs is my superpower. You’ll love how your energy shifts and your interactions become more positive after working together! I’m excited for you to experience more peace and confidence and live the life you’re meant to live.
In today’s fast-paced, high-stakes business environment, teams are often stretched thin, juggling competing priorities and navigating complex challenges, with focus on team culture taking a back seat. As a leader, you may notice your team operating in a mode of compliance: checking boxes, meeting deadlines, but lacking the spark of true collaboration. Compliance gets the job done, but connection drives transformative results. After 25 years in corporate tech, guiding executive and program teams through operational and leadership challenges, I’ve learned that building a connected team culture is the key to unlocking high performance, trust, and sustainable growth.
Connection isn’t about warm fuzzies or forced team-building exercises. It’s about creating an environment where team members are aligned on a shared purpose, leverage each other’s strengths, and engage in meaningful conversations that move the needle. When teams shift from compliance to connection, they don’t just work – they innovate, adapt, and thrive.
Here are three actionable ways to make that shift happen, drawn from my experience helping teams build scalable systems and align leadership for impact.
Compliance often stems from a lack of clarity. When team members don’t understand the why behind their work, they default to following orders rather than engaging with purpose. A shared vision is the antidote. It’s the North Star that aligns individual efforts with collective goals leading to a team culture of innovation and growth.
A team without a shared vision is like a ship without a compass. Each member may be rowing hard, but in different directions. In my work with executive teams, I’ve seen how competing priorities – sales pushing for revenue, product teams focusing on innovation, operations chasing efficiency – can fracture focus. A shared vision brings everyone back to the same page, fostering connection by giving every action a purpose.
For example, I once worked with a tech company’s leadership team struggling to integrate a new product into their portfolio. The team was compliant, hitting milestones, but morale was low, and collaboration with the extended team was nonexistent. The root issue? No one had articulated how this product fit into the business’ broader mission. By facilitating a vision-setting workshop, we clarified the “why” and aligned every department around that goal. Within three months, cross-functional collaboration increased, and the team reported not only a boost in engagement but excitement about the go to market strategy that elevated every product in the portfolio.
Pro Tip: Frame the vision as a question to spark discussion. For example, “How can we make our customers’ lives easier?” invites ideas and fosters buy-in.
Compliance thrives in silos. Team members do their part but don’t connect the dots. Intentional communication rhythms, like regular check-ins, break down those silos and create space for trust, accountability, and collaboration. These aren’t just meetings; they’re systems to keep the team aligned and connected.
A 2023 study found that organizational cultures promoting openness lead to stronger trust and conflict resolution in teams, highlighting the power of regular, intentional communication. When executive teams are pulled in multiple directions, individual priorities can overshadow collective goals. I worked with a leadership team undertaking a major shift in how they delivered products to market. This required everyone in the organization to change how they communicated including the executive team. To keep the appropriate focus on where it was needed across the organization, we implemented a daily check-in across all teams that fed in up to the executive team. There was initial resistance to this daily “interruption” but it quickly gained support as it enabled the teams to resolve blockers in hours rather than days and maintain momentum on what was important most.
Pro Tip: Assign a facilitator to keep the conversation on track and ensure quieter voices are heard. Rotate this role to build leadership skills across the team.
A connected team doesn’t just work together, they amplify each other’s strengths. Compliance often means doing the minimum required, but when team members feel valued for what they uniquely bring, they engage with passion and purpose. Who doesn’t want a team culture built on that?
Every team member has a unique skill set, perspective, or experience that can elevate the group. When those strengths are ignored, people disengage, and the team misses out on innovation. I once worked with a program team where compliance was the norm. Everyone did their tasks, but no one shared ideas. By introducing a strengths-sharing exercise during our check-ins, we uncovered hidden talents: one team member’s knack for data visualization streamlined reporting, while another’s facilitation skills improved meeting outcomes. The result? A 20% increase in project efficiency and a team that felt seen and valued.
Pro Tip: Create a “strengths spotlight” segment in your check-ins where one team member shares a skill or success story. It’s a quick way to build trust and inspire collaboration.
Shifting from compliance to connection isn’t a one-time fix. It’s a cultural evolution. Start with a shared vision to give your team purpose. Establish communication rhythms to keep everyone aligned and accountable. And amplify individual strengths to make every member feel valued. Together, these steps create a team that’s not just checking boxes but driving meaningful impact.
In my work as a strategic partner to high stakes teams, I’ve seen teams transform when they move from “doing the job” to “building something together.” One executive team I supported went from siloed compliance to a connected powerhouse by implementing these steps. They not only hit their goals but also reported higher trust and engagement, with 90% of team members saying they felt more invested in the collective mission.
Ready to shift your team from compliance to connection? Here’s how to start:
Connection is the foundation of high performance. It’s not about adding more work. It’s about working smarter, together. That’s a team culture I can get behind.
What’s one step you’ll take to foster connection on your team? I’d love to hear your thoughts or discuss how I can help you build a culture that thrives. Reach out, and let’s spark the conversations that matter.
I’ve been coaching people to be their best for over twenty years and love seeing them thrive as they adjust the lens they’re looking through. As a mom of teengaers, I realized that I could use my talent to help moms feel less frustrated, isolated and defeated as their kids navigate the challenging teen years. Helping my clients improve their relationship with themselves and honor their needs is my superpower. You’ll love how your energy shifts and your interactions become more positive after working together! I’m excited for you to experience more peace and confidence and live the life you’re meant to live.